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This week's dilemmas
Career
My job is being automated. Do I upskill, pivot, or panic?

The writing was on the wall — his entire department was being replaced by AI tooling he could learn in six months. Three paths, all terrifying. The clock didn't care which one he picked.

9 min read5,210 readersMar 28, 2026
What would you do?
Upskill — ride the AI waveclick to vote58%
Pivot — go human-proofclick to vote42%
Ethics
I saw my colleague's husband on a date. It wasn't with her.
6 min3,890 readersMar 29, 2026
Career
Should I take the promotion if it means giving up the life I've built?
8 min2,340 readersMar 31, 2026
Financial
My best friend needs $4,000. I have it. She's terrible with money.
5 min1,180 readersMar 30, 2026
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